Despite the minortity, the majority always succeed. RMweb remains a source of inspiration, and after having a good browse of the site, I've found some absolute gems of ideas and photos and videos which I'd missed or overlooked
You can take or leave what you want from the internet (RMweb included), you don't have to get embroiled in all of it. I avoid as much as I can anything that I know might rile me, and only very infrequently do I get 'caught out'.