I would quite like to join a local-ish club with an interest in French and narrow gauge railways. But I certainly won't join my nearest one. Why not? A couple of years ago I went up to their hopelessly bad and disorganised layout at an exhibition and said hello. The two blokes were busy trying to get things going. Fair enough, but they both studiously ignored me, even though they had clearly heard me. They couldn't even be bothered to say "hi, we'll be right with you in two ticks, just give us a moment." No, they just pretended I was not there. I stood there for a few minutes watching them as they faffed around, then one of them acknowledged me in a vague, half-hearted manner. Nothing very friendly or welcoming. I made my excuses and left. Never to return. Their loss, not mine, let me assure you.