solved! thx for your special effort.
if anyone need this is xml config working in my case
<?xml version="1.0"?>
<DR5000 xmlns:xsi="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance" xmlns:xsd="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema">
<Ext88_Bus>
<S88ReportAfterPowerOn>false</S88ReportAfterPowerOn>
<S88ReportDelay>500</S88ReportDelay>
<S88ScanAtPowerOff>false</S88ScanAtPowerOff>
<S88FirstContact>0</S88FirstContact>
<S88ContactCount>256</S88ContactCount>
<ext88ControlModules>0</ext88ControlModules>
<ext88Modules />
</Ext88_Bus>
<XpressNet>
<XnetEnabled>true</XnetEnabled>
<XnetVersion>54</XnetVersion>
<XnetStation>18</XnetStation>
<InvertTurnouts>true</InvertTurnouts>
<BroadcastLocoInfo>true</BroadcastLocoInfo>
<FeedbackBaseModule>64</FeedbackBaseModule>
<FeedbackFromModule>64</FeedbackFromModule>
<R_BusEnabled>true</R_BusEnabled>
<R_BusReportAfterPowerOn>true</R_BusReportAfterPowerOn>
<R_BusReportDelay>700</R_BusReportDelay>
<R_BusScanAtPowerOff>false</R_BusScanAtPowerOff>
<R_BusFirstContact>16</R_BusFirstContact>
</XpressNet>
<LocoNet>
<Purge_Time>0</Purge_Time>
<FastClock_Rate>0</FastClock_Rate>
<FRED_Timing>false</FRED_Timing>
<Baudrate_Tuning>0</Baudrate_Tuning>
<Comparator_Tuning>0</Comparator_Tuning>
<LN_ReportAfterPowerOn>false</LN_ReportAfterPowerOn>
<SenseReport>-1</SenseReport>
<RailComReport>0</RailComReport>
</LocoNet>
<RS_Bus>
<RS_Enabled>false</RS_Enabled>
<RS_Timing>false</RS_Timing>
<RS_ReportAfterPowerOn>false</RS_ReportAfterPowerOn>
<RS_ReportDelay>900</RS_ReportDelay>
<RS_ScanAtPowerOff>false</RS_ScanAtPowerOff>
<RS_FirstContact>0</RS_FirstContact>
</RS_Bus>
<MainTrack>
<TrackPolarity>-1</TrackPolarity>
<AutoPolarity>true</AutoPolarity>
<LDT_Decoders>false</LDT_Decoders>
<RailComCutout>true</RailComCutout>
<RefreshFL_F4>true</RefreshFL_F4>
<RefreshF5_F8>true</RefreshF5_F8>
<RefreshF9_F12>true</RefreshF9_F12>
<RefreshF13_F20>true</RefreshF13_F20>
<RefreshF21_F28>true</RefreshF21_F28>
<MaxTrackCurrent>1500</MaxTrackCurrent>
<ShortCircuitDelay>30</ShortCircuitDelay>
<LastShortAddress>126</LastShortAddress>
<DefaultSpeedSteps>0</DefaultSpeedSteps>
<FirstTurnoutModule>1</FirstTurnoutModule>
<MaxTurnoutOnTime>150</MaxTurnoutOnTime>
<MinTurnoutOnTime>50</MinTurnoutOnTime>
<TurnoutRepeat>12</TurnoutRepeat>
<PreambleBits>16</PreambleBits>
<SpeedRepeat>5</SpeedRepeat>
<FL_F4Repeat>5</FL_F4Repeat>
<F5_F8Repeat>5</F5_F8Repeat>
<F9_F12Repeat>8</F9_F12Repeat>
<F13_F20Repeat>8</F13_F20Repeat>
<F21_F28Repeat>8</F21_F28Repeat>
</MainTrack>
<ProgramTrack>
<MaxTrackCurrent>750</MaxTrackCurrent>
<ShortCircuitDelay>30</ShortCircuitDelay>
<PreambleBits>16</PreambleBits>
<ResetPacketsStart>27</ResetPacketsStart>
<ProgrammingPackets>8</ProgrammingPackets>
<ResetPacketsContinue>9</ResetPacketsContinue>
<AckDeltaCurrent>55</AckDeltaCurrent>
<POMRepeat>12</POMRepeat>
<ProgMode>SVC</ProgMode>
</ProgramTrack>
<BoosterBus>
<ShortCircuitDelay>30</ShortCircuitDelay>
</BoosterBus>
<CommandStation>
<SaveRestoreSlots>false</SaveRestoreSlots>
<PowerOnAtStartup>false</PowerOnAtStartup>
<StartupDelay>3000</StartupDelay>
<AddressSteps />
<SavedSlots />
</CommandStation>
<Infrared>
<Enabled>true</Enabled>
<LocoAddress_A>3</LocoAddress_A>
<LocoAddress_B>4</LocoAddress_B>
<LocoAddress_C>5</LocoAddress_C>
<LocoAddress_D>6</LocoAddress_D>
<TurnoutAddress_A>3</TurnoutAddress_A>
<TurnoutAddress_B>4</TurnoutAddress_B>
<TurnoutAddress_C>5</TurnoutAddress_C>
<TurnoutAddress_D>6</TurnoutAddress_D>
</Infrared>
<Version>--.--.--</Version>
<LANProtocol />
<LA1Protocol />
<LANTimeout>65</LANTimeout>
</DR5000>