Just been watching a wedding on TV & I said to the missus we've got to go through all this. She said as long as your looking at me when I walk in i'll be happy. I said I'll be on me phone on rmweb ; )'l
Take it from some one almost 16 years down the track. As long as she understands the interest as SHMD stated you both will be ok. I got around the extension as we couldn't get a dishwasher in the original kitchen.... Funny how the new kitchen came with a train room!