lofty1966

Every sympathy. It may have nothing to do with you - many people live in a couple and only want other couples. Even pain such as yours fades with time. Hang on as it fades!

Of course, they were only your mutual friends with her approval and without you realising it. Don`t worry it’s the way of the world, females are excellent at making friends with those (normally) other females who they can rely on to take their side in a crisis, a shoulder to cry on. By the time we males realise it, it’s normally too late to change the situation, as they are firmly entrenched on her side. Did you find that after you were married, that your friends were subtlety replaced by her...

In exactly the same position. Can't offer any magic cures; if I had I would bottle it and make my fortune, but at least take comfort from knowing its not you