Simple explanation about relays and switch definitions, maybe this will help?
A relay is only a remote controlled switch; Basically you operate 1 switch, which passes current to the relay COIL; by magnetic & mechanical operation the coil then moves the CONTACTS mounted on the relay. These CONTACTS actually function just as a switch would, hence the REMOTE SWITCH analogy.
Relays come in many shapes, sizes, and spec as to operating voltage to work the coil, but don't get too worried about that for now.
Switches also come in many shapes, such as Toggle, Push, Rotary, Slide, Microswitch etc but all contacts operate in a similar way.
SWITCH CONTACTS, which are essentially the same thing as RELAY CONTACTS, can have 3 basic functions.
1) MAKE contact, otherwise known as NORMALLY OPEN. An example of this is a torchlight switch; nothing works until you turn it ON.
2) BREAK contact, otherwise known as NORMALLY CLOSED. Works the opposite way round to the MAKE CONTACT version.
3) PASSING contact, which starts as NORMALLY OPEN; as the switch is operated it goes through a MAKE operation, but the another BREAK operation after that. In other works, it cannot be left ON; a simple example would be the old Triang/Hornby point motor lever switches.
Note that a CHANGEOVER contact combines 1) & 2).
If the switch lever has only 1 movement, ie moves from one position to only one other, it is known as SINGLE THROW.
A lever with 2 movements is DOUBLE THROW. Example: a Centre OFF position, with an ON position in either LEFT or RIGHT.
All the above refers only to 1 POLE. ie a 1-wire circuit if you like. If you have 2 poles, in effect you have 2 separate switches (electrically) but actually coupled together mechanically. So you move 1 lever, but move 2 separate sets of contacts, which may be either of the same type, or different. A switch can actually have a number of poles, in practice anything over 4 pole is unusual.
For each type of description, a simple code is often used.
DPDT- NO is short for:DOUBLE POLE, DOUBLE THROW, NORMALLY OPEN.
SPST - CO is SINGLE POLE, SINGLE THROW, CHANGEOVER
DPST- NC is DOUBLE POLE, SINGLE THROW, NORMALLY CLOSED.
Many other permutations are possible, but should now be easy to work out. Don't forget - relay contacts are only switches so follow the same rules.
Hope this helps?
Stewart