Oh for goodness sake! This post is not about s-e-x, rather about identity and right to self-expression! The LBGTQI forum extends far and wide, including those involved in railway modelling, therefore a valid topic for discussion under Wheeltappers! Perhaps the Poster has touched an uncomfortable nerve here, but his/her opinion is very relevant. Having lived in Canada for a year, Canadians are taking discussions around identity very seriously! Perhaps the UK could learn a great deal from this.