For someone who has, like CP lived with this for years without diagnosis (actually diagnosed at 50 by my now wife, who works with autistic children) and learned coping strategies for many situations there are still some things (that may appear small or trivial to others) but that completely floor me. My own situation is similar to CP, except I do live with my very understanding wife, and his story almost echoes my own, and like him to the outside world I can usually give the appearance of being quite 'normal', whatever 'normal' is! The thought of being in a social situation making 'small talk' to people I don't know completely fills me with dread though.
Now as I rapidly approach retirement I reflect on what has actually been a fairly successful life. I attained a good management position in my chosen career (although I have now taken a couple of steps down), have two wonderful children (now adults) but it has not been easy and there have been many difficult times, although like CP if you could offer a 'cure' as a teenager (where I knew I was different just not how) I'm also not sure I would have taken it.