Can I make a minor contribution, not on the subject of cancer, but to reassure men that prostate problems may be just that - not cancerous. My intention is to take some of the fear out of having that gland examined, and to state that simple surgical procedures can make life a lot nicer, without taking away from a man's natural pleasures in life.
I had been showing symptoms of prostate issues over some dozen years - inability to pee properly, and frequent and urgent loo visits therefore becoming increasingly common. I had a biennial scan from 2008, and this, combined with PSA readings, showed cancer was not a factor. But early last year things got beyond a joke, and a urologist was consulted. He had me in dock in a few days, and in an op lasting about an hour reduced the size of the prostate, making bladder things work rather better. Suffice to say that I did not have an operation scar afterwards, and was in hospital for only a few days. The anesthetic was local, and at no time did I suffer any pain, before, during or after the op.
The timing of the op postponed my intended marriage, to RMwebber Ashcombe, but importantly the surgery has not impaired our ability to enjoy the usual activities, although I would be unlikely to father children. In our 60s this is not a problem!
David's tale seems to have a happy ending, but my point is so might yours, if you have issues with urinating, but fear the worst. Get your prostate checked and you might be delighted with the outcome, even if, like me minor remedial work is called for.