My daughter, who has just turned 23, was assessed as being an Aspie 18 years ago.
It's been a long, difficult journey, with lots of tears, tantrums and arguments, but she achieved great GCSEs, has done 2x 2 year college courses in which she achieved very high achievement levels, and has since done a catering apprenticeship. She's incredibly intelligent, and we have tried not to use being an Aspie as an excuse for poor behaviour or underachieving. She's also a very talented baker, and has her own small cupcake and cookies business, as well as working part time in a cafe.
However, there are limits. She was 20 before we let her start driving lessons, but after 2 years and several 'close calls', we all agreed that this was perhaps one step too far, as her perception of relative movement and anticipation were not good enough. As her instructor said, on a good day she would pass without any issues, but then what? She was incredibly mature about it, and as we pointed out to her, at least she tried. You can't ask for any more than that.
At least these days it's not the stigma that it all once was, and I can only wish all Aspies every success in what they do.