RMweb Gold 57xx Posted September 11, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 11, 2023 1 hour ago, big jim said: I just stayed in the front room twerking away to the sick beats I'm glad to see you are keeping your sense of humour under arduous circumstances Jim. Hope it all works out! 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnofwessex Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 Sorted! 4 7 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 12, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 12, 2023 3 hours ago, 57xx said: I'm glad to see you are keeping your sense of humour under arduous circumstances Jim. Hope it all works out! If I didn’t laugh I’d cry! 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 12, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 12, 2023 (edited) And on it goes, this mornings school run involved them quietly dropping off the kid in the school yard before leaving the gate and winding down the back window and getting the other 2 kids in the car to scream at our house! Edited September 12, 2023 by big jim 6 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
IWCR Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 Could be worth asking your neighbours to complain as well. Pete 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Premium Reorte Posted September 12, 2023 RMweb Premium Share Posted September 12, 2023 37 minutes ago, big jim said: And on it goes, this mornings school run involved them quietly dropping off the kid in the school yard before leaving the gate and winding down the back window and getting the other 2 kids in the car to scream at our house! Aren't they going to grow up to be useful members of society... 6 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 12, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 12, 2023 1 hour ago, Reorte said: Aren't they going to grow up to be useful members of society... As I said 3 pages back, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree 1 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 3 hours ago, big jim said: And on it goes, this mornings school run involved them quietly dropping off the kid in the school yard before leaving the gate and winding down the back window and getting the other 2 kids in the car to scream at our house! Don't know if it's worth putting some footage on a local Facebook group if you have one. Maybe they can be recognised and shamed? Don't put ones with kids on though because safeguarding. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnofwessex Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 I understand that The Police dont want footage that has been submitted to them in connection with a criminal act released publicly as it can prejudice legal proceedings. Which agencies (Police & Social Services?) have been involved and anything happening 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippel Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 Is it worth asking about an asbo? Would need your neighbours to cooperate, too. I think they're started via the council. Paul 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 12, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 12, 2023 51 minutes ago, 30801 said: Don't know if it's worth putting some footage on a local Facebook group if you have one. Maybe they can be recognised and shamed? Don't put ones with kids on though because safeguarding. no, no and no….I can’t stand the whole Facebook kangaroo court thing (I’m not even on Facebook) May as well go in Jeremy Kyle! I’m not out to ‘name and shame’ as I’ve got nothing to gain or prove, the culprits are known to the people who need to know to get the issue resolved, I don’t know their name and I don’t want to know it either 40 minutes ago, johnofwessex said: I understand that The Police dont want footage that has been submitted to them in connection with a criminal act released publicly as it can prejudice legal proceedings. Which agencies (Police & Social Services?) have been involved and anything happening I’m going to take the vids down for that reason now it’s escalated to a police matter I’ve had assurances from the headmaster that they have spoken to the parents today and there will be no further incidents The school, school trust, police, council and social services are the agencies I’ve informed 44 minutes ago, Hippel said: Is it worth asking about an asbo? Would need your neighbours to cooperate, too. I think they're started via the council. Paul hopefully if the headmaster is true to his works this will be the end of the matter apart from seeing what the outcome of the report into the way it was dealt with is 10 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcredfer Posted September 13, 2023 Share Posted September 13, 2023 (edited) 23 hours ago, big jim said: And on it goes, this mornings school run involved them quietly dropping off the kid in the school yard before leaving the gate and winding down the back window and getting the other 2 kids in the car to scream at our house! From that and the previous events, it looks like they are considerably more rattled than you and lacking in maturity. Your patient reporting and stepping back for results keeps you well out of any claim that you are in any way being threatening to them, leaving their behaviour out in the clear, without any opportunity for them to blame you. {Edit and clearly, highlights you as the "grown-up in the room".} Edited September 13, 2023 by jcredfer 2 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 13, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 13, 2023 This is what I don’t understand, the way they acting get have a lot to lose as it’s totally irrational behaviour, the fact it’s got to point where child protection are involved stemming from a simple request to turn some music down is beyond me! even this morning after being reassured there will be no further incidents she pulled out of the school, looked directly at and smiled at one of the cameras, It may only be minor but it’s still quite intimidating 1 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnofwessex Posted September 13, 2023 Share Posted September 13, 2023 Are 'Child Protection' doing anything you are aware of or has it just been reported 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 13, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 13, 2023 (edited) 10 hours ago, johnofwessex said: Are 'Child Protection' doing anything you are aware of or has it just been reported been reported by me but I believe the school say they are already in contact with them Edited September 13, 2023 by big jim 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcredfer Posted September 13, 2023 Share Posted September 13, 2023 2 hours ago, big jim said: This is what I don’t understand, the way they acting get have a lot to lose as it’s totally irrational behaviour, the fact it’s got to point where child protection are involved stemming from a simple request to turn some music down is beyond me! even this morning after being reassured there will be no further incidents she pulled out of the school, looked directly at and smiled at one of the cameras, It may only be minor but it’s still quite intimidating You have every right to look at it from the viewpoint that you are the adults, with the self control and maturity, that they demonstrate they are unable to manage..... And you might well feel a deal of satisfaction for being able to do so. Their repeated provocations are not achieving the reaction that they intended and that's a failure, in their eyes, particularly in view of the official attention they have now drawn to themselves. 2 4 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 13, 2023 Share Posted September 13, 2023 Of all the trailers to get stuck with... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold Tankerman Posted September 13, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 13, 2023 1 hour ago, 30801 said: Of all the trailers to get stuck with... So this is where the Pilot ended up when he got sacked from the Suez Canal. 1 1 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 15, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 15, 2023 Yet again another morning of screaming at the camera from the kids in back of the car! getting very much out of hand now 17 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 15, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 15, 2023 And this afternoon, a mere 30 seconds after seeing them speaking to a member of staff I got called a ‘Cupid stunt’ (to put it nicely) from the car as it left the yard! 1 9 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnofwessex Posted September 15, 2023 Share Posted September 15, 2023 Sorry to hear that. I would suggest if you are not doing it already that you keep a diary to send to the various agency's involved 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coldgunner Posted September 15, 2023 Share Posted September 15, 2023 Be careful when you go to pick up any nails from B&Q, its really easy to drop them in the road ;) 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold Popular Post big jim Posted September 15, 2023 RMweb Gold Popular Post Share Posted September 15, 2023 46 minutes ago, johnofwessex said: Sorry to hear that. I would suggest if you are not doing it already that you keep a diary to send to the various agency's involved Yeah everything logged and all vids downloaded etc Sadly I’ve now requested that the child be removed from the school as it seems to be the only way to remove the need for this particular family to pass my house, I really didn’t want to have to go so far as he deserves an education based on his personal needs but I can’t, and shouldn’t, have to put up with this abuse on a twice daily basis I’ve looked at the various school policies and have cross referenced a number of clauses and rules that the family and child are breaking and made the school aware how those violations have the power to get him excluded, I’ve certainly not gone into it with a gung-ho attitude, I want to try and be watertight with my reasoning for exclusion my wife has had to visit the doctor due to issues arising from this incident, she’s been unable to eat and has been diagnosed as suffering from anxiety attacks something which she’s never ever had until this week, she’s also been given sleeping pills as she’s not sleeping worrying about possible damage to our property especially as some of the incidents are happening whilst I’m at work, of course I have a safety critical job so have to switch off my emotions when I’m in work as it requires upmost concentration so once I’m home it’s all I think about and it also seems like it’s the only thing my wife and myself seem to be discussing, the worry of where it’s all going to end up It’s a sorry state of affairs that’s for sure 22 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnofwessex Posted September 15, 2023 Share Posted September 15, 2023 Can you get an injunction? 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMweb Gold big jim Posted September 15, 2023 RMweb Gold Share Posted September 15, 2023 3 minutes ago, johnofwessex said: Can you get an injunction? might look at that, the police have said just ring 999 if we feel threatened, thing is they just have their 30 seconds of ‘fun’ then are gone until the next day or the afternoon, if the police were here for the school run then the family wouldn’t do anything, thing is the more they do and the more I log, even little things, and it’s just more evidence 6 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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