I scored 17 on the Asperger's test, 47 for empathy. More than 50 years after most were scrapped, I can still more or less recite the names and numbers in order of the 40 members of the Schools Class. Useful, eh? OTOH I have one younger female friend, who, while not finding me at all physically attractive, has effectively appointed me as her girlfriend, so much detail of her life does she find she can discuss with me.
I once found myself in a bonding exercise with others, including a few engineers who had reason not to adore me. When my Myers Briggs score came in at ISTJ, indicating a classic engineering temperament, at least one of them was mortified. He used to organise a major model exhibition, had real talent as a modeller himself.
I believe that many in our hobby are less than truly gregarious, although some of us like meeting similarly-minded souls, who we see as safe company. These days the Internet has provided a new environment for loners of all sorts, although there is at least a choice of making virtual friends, contributing to a forum, or becoming a troll/keyboard warrior. There must be some who manage all three.
Some friends have a son who they thought had tourettes. This has since been refined into something more rare, the name sadly escaping me. The father, living in Scotland, went to symposia on the syndrome in the USA, organised a symposium in Edinburgh, which his employer helped sponsor. Last year the family visited India, twice, and Jack is almost cured, his mother tells me, as a result of those visits. I didn't dare ask if it was medicine or mysticism that had prevailed. My new wife, having been a teacher all her working life, met the boy socially before the India visits and noticed no abnormality. Some people look for problems and can't wait to find a label, it seems.
With 7 billion of us on the planet, it is no surprise that we enjoy a wide range of physical and mental strengths and weaknesses. If identifying where you are on a spectrum helps you to cope with difficult things and makes life a little easier, then that's fine with me.